Not sure what to think....
Okay so I was having a conversation with this guy last night and a slightly interesting point came up. See I'll explain. This guy I've been involved with in terms of a friends with benefit deal. We've been open with each other about the whole situation and know it's a no strings attached situation. It works out well because you get that fun without having to try to make a relationship work out. Anyway back to the point. Last night we were chatting and he said something about how he has his eye on a few girls but is waiting for the right time. Which that sucks but oh well he is free to try and get involved with people in a serious light just as I am. In response to that I was like well you better do something before it's too late. He joked and was like nah I'm the man. I was like I mean in case they end up getting involved with someone else. He was like true and then was like do you have a boyfriend? I told him no and he was like why not. So I went on to tell him the why not's. But afterwards it left me wondering...
I mean it's just a little odd that he goes from talking about having his eye on people and I say you better do something before they have a boyfriend and then he asks if I have one. Now it could mean nothing at all. It might have just been random conversation that kind of was ironic with the timing of things said. But it's like could it also be like he was just giving me the heads up that things between us might end? Or maybe he was trying to see if I'd be willing to be the girl on the side or something like that? Or maybe he was even trying to see what my reaction was to see if I'm interested in being more serious with him. I don't know and honestly I'm trying not to really think about it. But at the same time I'm trying to prep myself for any possibilities because I don't want to be caught off guard. You know what I mean?
Oh well things are just gonna have to keep rolling and I'll deal with things as they come up. Although I have to admit it kind of makes me take a step back and go would I ever want to be in a serious relationship with him?? Not sure if I would or not. I do know one guy I would love to be able to give it a serious shot with...but he doesn't live anywhere close to me so that's not even a possible option in my life. Which sucks but oh well nothing I can do about that.
I mean it's just a little odd that he goes from talking about having his eye on people and I say you better do something before they have a boyfriend and then he asks if I have one. Now it could mean nothing at all. It might have just been random conversation that kind of was ironic with the timing of things said. But it's like could it also be like he was just giving me the heads up that things between us might end? Or maybe he was trying to see if I'd be willing to be the girl on the side or something like that? Or maybe he was even trying to see what my reaction was to see if I'm interested in being more serious with him. I don't know and honestly I'm trying not to really think about it. But at the same time I'm trying to prep myself for any possibilities because I don't want to be caught off guard. You know what I mean?
Oh well things are just gonna have to keep rolling and I'll deal with things as they come up. Although I have to admit it kind of makes me take a step back and go would I ever want to be in a serious relationship with him?? Not sure if I would or not. I do know one guy I would love to be able to give it a serious shot with...but he doesn't live anywhere close to me so that's not even a possible option in my life. Which sucks but oh well nothing I can do about that.
posted by Missy D at 1:07 PM
1 Comments:
Oh Missy!! Take it a step at a time... He could have been feeling you out to see if you were interested in being his only. But hell, who knows with dudes these days! They are almost worse off than us women when it comes to making up their minds!
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